
i worried the same thing about my ex who ironically dumped me because my health was “taking over our relationship” when in reality i was deteriorating and he was too narcissistic to realize/understand/comprehend that. i ended up realizing how abusive and manipulative he was after the fact, so it was worth it. but trust me if your partner is the right one, and is kind and honest and loving, he’ll love you unconditionally :)