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I have a boyfriend, but I’m no longer in love with him because he doesn’t want to commit to the future. However, I’ve started developing feelings for someone who is clear about their life goals. What should I do?
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Anonymous 4w

Leave your bf for the new guy

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Anonymous 4w

To me and everyone has the own opinion on this. A committed relationship is about communication. Ones you lose that then trust issues and sex life goes down

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Anonymous 4w

If he doesn't want to commit to the future, he doesn't see you as someone worth planning for. You probably won't be able to change his mindset. Pursue what you want to have

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Anonymous 4w

this is a very easy break up with the guy who doesn’t want to commit to anything regardless of the new guy you want

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Anonymous 4w

Let us know how it goes. Have fun

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Anonymous 4w

Sounds like you’re in 2 relationships.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

No 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

What would you call the other one. And how would you feel if your BF did that to you. Would you call him a cheater.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

I agree with 2. It’s pretty much over. You made up your mind.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

You’re rightttttttt 💯

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4w

Definitely

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

I willlll

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