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My girlfriend consistently intelligence mogs me, I stg she’s always reading some sort of classic literature and I’m here on book 8 of the Malazan series 😭
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Anonymous 9h

my bf for real he reads these “16 steps to success” books and i’m kicking my feet reading my murder mysteries

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 9h

16 steps to success is just self help slop lmao. That whole uses pseudo-intellectual formatting and jargon to make incredibly basic, common-sense advice sound like profound, hidden secrets of the universe. Your murder mysteries probably require more genuine intelligence than reading repetitive, cookie-cutter corporate “success” manuals😭

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 8h

I will say, from a psychology perspective, some of those self help book DO help. You just really need to research the authors. What may be common sense to me or you may not be for someone else. A good example is “I” statements. “I feel you don’t show your appreciation enough” vs “you hardly ever show appreciation for me” hits entirely different during confrontations

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 8h

I enjoyed atomic habits its didnt feel like he was trying to use overly complex vocabulary and the advice was solid

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