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Maybe this is pretentious of me, but ppl that don’t read outside of romance pmo
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Anonymous 11h

Hi! You don’t like me either, I only read fantasy 🥰 and yea it is a little pretentious, do you like get to know someone and really hit it off and then suddenly hate them because of their choice in books?? The gatekeeping is real. Read what makes you happy folks!

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Anonymous 14h

And that’s not ridiculous to say that

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Anonymous 13h

for me it’s people who act like they’re super well-read and better than everyone when all they read is either SJM or CoHo, Frieda McFadden etc stuff that’s listed in the library catalogue as a fifth grade reading level 😭

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Anonymous 11h

I have a friend who I always knew she liked reading and she seemed really chill. Then I saw an account she ran that was just about books and it's all freaky ass shit which forever changed the image I had of her.

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Anonymous 7h

no i get it bc a lot of romance is just Not good. and theres a wealth of literary styles that never really get a chance to shine in stories that focus on romance.

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Anonymous 9h

It’s like the best selling genre if it keeps the spaces I love alive I won’t complain. I read fantasy but certainly not just fantasy. It rubs me the wrong way some of these comments seem to think we are better than the people that just read romance. I wouldn’t look down on someone for something so minuscule, feels like gatekeeping a community that requires those types of readers to survive. No hate, I’m open to discussion, just feels mean.

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Anonymous 11m

same for me but for people who recc me books bc they know I like fantasy, then they recc me a webtoon. I hate reading webtoons 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 13h

as a librarian I’m usually just happy when people are reading anything, but it’s the particular attitude that gets me

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 6m

HA. that’s funny asf

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 4m

I agree completely. I do think it’s pretentious of me. just irks me when ppl won’t give ANY other genre a try

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 3m

I’m a big fantasy nerd and can’t stand reading a book w/ romance, but idc when someone reads romance since they’re reading what they like. It’s only a problem when they tell me “oh I’m a fantasy nerd too!” and then we talk abt it or they recc me stuff and they only talk about romantasy. just say you’re a romantasy reader. I even say I don’t want to read ANY romance & twice they’ve insisted with “oh this one doesn’t have much romance” and then I have to DNF, which I HATE doing.

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