
Cosplaying good Vorin Men from Roshar (I’m so sorry if you don’t get this reference) Actual answer, I think it’s a mix of the usual burnout of reading by force through school and systemic mysogeny. We view certain book genres as “more feminine” so we don’t read them and tend to lean towards “manly” things like sports books and those like business advice books. Also lack of whimsy. Not everything needs to be productive
Men generally have a bias toward valuing brawn over brain, and a tendency to think with their dicks. They think if you read, you’re a nerd, if you’re a nerd you’re not cool, and if you’re not cool, you won’t get laid. That’s why there’s so few of them that enjoy things that make you use your brain, like reading.
I read a like 20ish books a year, mainly non fiction and poetry though. I think the only fictional works I've read this year were the tale of genji and consider phlebas. Most guys don’t read bc they weren’t rly socialized to it properly I think—that and time they would’ve spent reading going to other stuff like the internet/games/media where it’s still knowledge consumption of a kind, just not in books
All of the other comments so far are bringing up good points, but I don’t think it’s as deep as some of these make it out to be. I think plenty of dudes our age read when we were kids (I’m 22 for reference), but now we’re just too captivated by gaming, porn, gambling, and short form content in general to invest in reading. This problem isn’t as prevalent with women though
I’ve seen it in my friends who love fantasy and play video games too. They’ll trend towards literature that’s “productive” in their field of study rather than reading for fun, and when I or my other friend that reads try to suggest things, they just cling right back to some random business book
Idk, I find genuine joy and whimsy in non-fiction too. You get memoirs, quippy historians, deep spiritual insight, poetic resonance, and academics of highly specific persuasions—each as colorful as any fictional narrative, just in a different way. Most knowledge is productive imo, depends on the intent and takeaway ofc. I find business books fun too 💀
And I’m not saying you shouldn’t. I was trying to find a way to say “they’re all crypto bros” without saying it. There’s plenty of fun and interesting things out there, but I feel most men feel they NEED to stick to those business-y, historical, not immediately obviously fun books to not feel like a nerd or a target like you mentioned. Like the number of times I’ve wanted to just say “it’s ok to pick up a fantasy book with a fancy and colorful cover “