
I feel like this sometimes too. Never being recognized for the things I’ve accomplished. Never tied to the work. But when I say something about it …. I get guilty 💭 people must think I am arrogant or braggy. People still define us as our lowest accomplishments. It’s acceptable to look down on someone and tough to put them above us is why… straight pride.
It’s hurting me so bad. I was sobbing about the medical sexism and racism. Women being sold for experimentation, reproduction, etc. nurses being under appreciated but one of the most important jobs in society. Religion overshadowing human achievement. War has no winners. Glorification of war. I can go on. I’m so ill, and people are saying this book is dark romance booktok slop and fetishizes rape. It’s carving a hole in me.
I think that one mistake makes society view a woman as only that thing. It doesn’t matter how high she has gone or the great things she has done, her mistakes will stain her. That’s why I still believe that we have work to do. Women and Men are not yet treated equally. A man can do man wrongs, and they will remember him for his greatest achievement. A woman will be seen as the lowest thing she has ever been.
I have always tried to be humble and I think of my accomplishments from a different perspective. I think of them as interesting and not something to brag about. Women aren’t supposed to brag, they aren’t told they should be prideful of their work, they should quietly do so in the background. That is the story Alchemised tells.