
It’s really not that serious or complicated to understand. When you’re jokingly embracing the term, like OP, it’s absolutely not the same as the assholes who call smut readers porn addicts. Similar to queer folks referring to themselves as d*kes etc in an affectionate way versus bigots using those words as slurs. There is a difference in tone. If you can’t tell, maybe don’t comment on it. But OP’s post is obviously a lighthearted joke and you’re the one making it an issue.
And the fact that you’re calling romantasy unbearable makes me think you’re one of the outsiders who use these terms negatively. So really you have 0 right to comment on a joke when you’re the type who treats the genre in a derogatory manner. Get lost. This was a funny post and you’re gross.