
Like. Yes, in order to have thematic exploration of sex from any narrative point of view, you’re likely going to need to depict sex in whatever way serves your point. But too many people dismiss any form of subtext because they consider the topic to only serve one purpose (that is, to elicit/encourage lustful thoughts). We can’t talk about sex in any nuanced way in any form of media (or regularly in life for that matter) because people are so quick to shut those conversations down
I’d say House of Leaves sticks out as a prime example. The main character, J ohnny Truant, is INCREDIBLY hypersexual/allosexual and describes his multiple sexual encounters in the most oversharing-in-the-dude’s-locker-room uncomfortable way possible. And SO many people literally skip over his sections in the narrative because they assume it’s just baseless and distracting from the other parts of the story when it is SUCH A RICH EXPLORATION into what informs his trauma & his horrors he undergoes