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Just an FYI to some of the men here (& the one DMing me right now)—most all of us are not looking to flirt with you! Starting an “innocent” convo about books in DMs and immediately turning it into flirting/a crush makes me very uncomfortable. Pls stop 🫶
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Anonymous 2w

I honestly would not post this if it hadn’t happened enough times that I’m upset about it. One, I am not single. Two, I am very asexual and when I think a conversation is normal and it’s suddenly flirty, it makes me scary uncomfortable (I know I’m not everyone, but I’m also not the only one who feels this way). Three, this is book club!! If you want to chat books w someone from a post, JUST REPLY TO THAT POST. I am no longer accepting DMs that could have been comments.

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