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My bf won’t let me go out unless it’s with him. Is that controlling???
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Anonymous 3d

No lmao??? It’d be controlling if he did let you out by yourself, since he’d be avoidant if he did. Would you let the most precious person to you out of your sight? Obviously not. Just embrace the codependent relationship!

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Anonymous 3d

Nah. Get an air tag.

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Anonymous 3d

he’s too controlling, cheat on him

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Anonymous 1d

not at all, why would you even want to be without him??

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Anonymous 3d

He just loves you. Never let him go, you need him. How will you be sure anyone else will ever love?? Do not let this slip at all costs.

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Anonymous 3d

I mean, use this scenario on one of your friends and think about what u would say to your friend if they were in this situation. It is definitely controlling and he shouldn't be doing that, we should all live our lives individually and he shouldn't control it

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3d

We are long distance. He also doesn’t want me to get my toes done by a male. I have to have my location on at all time. If I turn it off he’s very upset with me

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3d

Yea sorry to break it to you but he isn't the one for you. Your life doesn't revolve around him. He's not the only man in the world, you are always gonna be surrounded by other boys so why is he acting like that. I understand if he wants to see your location for safety reasons other than that I'm sorry that you have to go through that.

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 1d

With his dad or brother

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 20h

With his mother

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