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I highly encourage more men to adopt this mindset.
shoot your shot bro, she might like ugly mfs, you never know
307 upvotes, 14 comments. Sidechat image post by Anonymous in Bad Advice. "shoot your shot bro, she might like ugly mfs, you never know"
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Anonymous 7w

This isn’t even bad advice tho.

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Anonymous 7w

people under estimate the power of humor and personality, people ive found zero initial attraction to become very attractive once they start making me smile and laugh

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Anonymous 7w

I value my mental health way too much to try ts

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Anonymous 7w

Haha yes I got a pawg with an hour glass figure and I am ugly asf

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Anonymous 7w

most women date below their league no lie. respect her and treat her well and you’re the sexiest mf alive

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Anonymous 7w

Unfortunately I’m more of a situational funny guy. Can’t think of anything funny until something happens.

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Anonymous 7w

she might BE an ugly mf, you never know

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Anonymous 7w

nah rs like I fw a lil ugly every now and then!!

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Anonymous 7w

Most girls just want to see guys who put effort into themselves and their personalities. Like, look like you try at least and be a decent person

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Anonymous 7w

I agree, but RESPECT THEIR ANSWER

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Anonymous 7w

I just want to be wanted for who and how I am and not be used again, but I don’t see the stars aligning like that in a person for a long ass time

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Anonymous 6w

Coming from a woman: this isn’t bad advice, lots of women are attracted to confidence more than anything. If you feel a vibe between you, just go for it, and be yourself. And if she doesn’t want you, it’s not the end of the world, and you can recover from a rejection. Take these things in stride and believe in yourselves!

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Anonymous 7w

Im a girll who loves ugly fuckers so

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Anonymous 7w

Would he like ugly mf’s or nah

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Anonymous 7w

all these pussy in the replies

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Anonymous 7w

Yep and then when you do the girl doesn’t give you a clear answer and than just stops talking to you

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Anonymous 7w

Or just go hit the grind and accept that women aren’t worth it…

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Anonymous 7w

This just in the male suicide rate has just went up drastically

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Anonymous 7w

Nah. You miss 110% of the shots you don’t take. Shooters gotta shoot. And brother I got more ammo than Camp Lejeune

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 7w

Being funny has gotten my dick into places my face card and physique couldn’t even get in line for. You just gotta fuckin send it man.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 7w

Its ok to strike out man. Being ok with rejection and boundaries is actually really good for your mental health

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 7w

Just accept that its always going to suck.

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 7w

The grind is cool until you have no one to share it with and all your homies have partners they’re sharing their lives with. You can keep that mindset or understand that even though dating sucks right now its not impossible to find someone that you fuck with

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 7w

Same bro 😭 Being charismatic is a lifesaver for my social life

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 7w

Women love confidence and humor/charisma way more than looks in my experience.

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 7w

THIS!!!!

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Anonymous replying to -> #13 7w

holy relatable

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 7w

Rejection is a normal part of life and everyone experiences it. By avoiding it all you’re doing is hurting yourself and pushing yourself further away from good human interactions that will actually help you learn and feel things you’ve never felt before.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 7w

Male suicide rates go up because we’ve built a culture where they’re afraid to acknowledge their feelings and be vulnerable with people. Exactly the thing you’re saying to do btw.

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 7w

just be gay

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Anonymous replying to -> #18 7w

Well I’ve had boys throw temper tantrums when I give them a clear no so I have to kinda dance around it 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #16 7w

Fair enough lol!

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Anonymous replying to -> #18 7w

Its really sad because some dudes will go absolutely ballistic because a girl rejects them. These situations can get really scary really fast

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 7w

oooh that’s good

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 7w

Yeah, try striking out for a year... being constantly rejected is NOT good for your mental health.

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Anonymous replying to -> #20 7w

Yeah that’s why he said being okay with rejection is good for your mental health

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 7w

Being "okay with rejection" only exists when you have a support system to affirm that you are not defined by your rejection(aka having people that accept you)... so I'd love to see someone who has no support system that is truly okay with rejection.

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Anonymous replying to -> #19 7w

It’s hard to find but you don’t find it by not trying. Learn and heal and try again my brother.

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Anonymous replying to -> #20 7w

I have no support system or people that accept me and have been depressed for 10 years now, but I’m fine with rejection.

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 7w

"I'm fine with rejection" *has depression*

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Anonymous replying to -> #20 7w

Depression is genetic bud

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Anonymous replying to -> #20 6w

the most famous symptom of depression: not being ok with rejection (insecurity ≠ depression btw)

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Anonymous replying to -> #26 6w

Um…..sure?

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 6w

Like……maybe for some people but that’s not what’s happening here 😅

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Anonymous replying to -> #20 6w

Can I ask you something? When you get rejected what does it feel like to you? How do you feel about yourself when it happens?

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 6w

Obviously it doesn’t feel great putting yourself out there and striking out, but I feel better after knowing I tried. They might not be interested but eventually someone will be so I keep going. It’s difficult to be disappointed when you know inevitability is on your side :)

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