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so it turns out i’m not crazy and my professor WAS actually using emotional manipulation tactics and he actually did try to keep me from transferring schools by witholding his reference for me (1/2 my major classes are his so i need the ref)
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Anonymous 1w

WHAT

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

yeah i told my prof i needed his ref because i wanted to transfer and instead of giving it to me he gaslit me saying “what does ____ have that we don’t?” and “you have so much potential i can train you so well”. “don’t tell anyone i said this but i pick on you bc better than everyone else”. he would pick on me for just about every mistake for the last 2 semesters and it got even worse when i told him i’m transferring.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

You need to report him to your university

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

my performance was getting worse and my anxiety has gotten so bad that i shed tears the other day in class. so i went to the dean and he said that the prof told him he wanted to withhold me and the dean had to force him to give me the ref i need

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

honestly i didn’t want to say something bc in the beginning of the school year i didn’t know whether he was strict or just an asshole so i didn’t know when to draw the line but whenever he’s not in a good mood he kinda takes it out on other people so i didn’t want that to happen

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

i checked online and i can’t report him to the dean of students yet unless the problem still isn’t resolved after i had gone to the dean of arts dept

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