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I live with my best friend of 15 years and we’re both autistic women. I think im starting to develop feelings for her, but its just the two of us here and im scared it could make things awkward if one sided. Is it even worth telling her?
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Anonymous 11w

That is so tough. Ive lived with a gf and it was bad for other reasons but at the same time im weird and gay with many of my close women friends and we are all autistic and its grand

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Anonymous 11w

Honestly, keep the peace until you get a good read on how she feels. If you think she could move past it, it’s chill. If not, then maybe tell another friend, etc to get it off your chest and then try to move on

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Anonymous 11w

15 years 🫶🏾. How long have you lived together?

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Anonymous 10w

no bruh

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Anonymous 10w

I don’t know if you two already do date like stuff but when I like someone I’m friends with I just ask them to go to dinner with me, I dress up a bit and try to cue that I’m romantically interested in them.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 11w

I think she would take it well.. and I know we could be friends if I said something I think I’m just really nervous to fuck it up

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 11w

We had a dorm 2 years ago, then spent a year apart, and now have an apartment together. We moved in to the new place this past week

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