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Ladies real talk how are we dealing with self harm that comes less from an overtly destructive place and more from a sensory place? Tw but more in comments
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Anonymous 19h

Like i cant stop putting cigs out on myself not in the same way that i used to cut but the pain feels interesting and it scratches some kind of itch idk. Same with smoking in general

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Anonymous 11h

For some reason when I scratch my back in the shower then let the water run over it, I like my scalding hell fire showers, the burn feels really good

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 19h

Ive always been very sensory seeking and for some reason the more painful parts of it feel the best and bring me the most calm/satisfaction, its been an issue since i was very young

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 18h

Have you tried a spike stick? Rolling that over your skin might help. Or the good rubber band snap trick. Another way to help is to redirect your urge. Once you feel the urge, find something else to do that will stop you from participating in the urge. Hold an ice cube on your arm, put glue on your arm and peel it off, that type of thing. It’s important to recognize that it’ll be gradual, don’t expect yourself to stop immediately but start putting in the effort to stop now.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 18h

Its not enough 😭😭

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 17h

used to do same thing with cigs lmao this is validating 😭 i stopped smoking cigs all together i still occasionaly do it with a blunt sometimes its just impulsive

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 17h

How did u stop smoking help a girl out 😭😭 i been smoking weed since i was a kid but cigs are a new problem

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 17h

i switched to nicotine vapes and slowly took out the cigs bc i saw a reddit thread saying it can make ur pussy taste like cigs if u smoke lol but now im addicted to vaping

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 17h

Damn i am really averse to vaping. Does it rlly make ur puss taste like cigs thats crazy, unfortunately all the women im involved with do not gaf

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 17h

rlly why averse to vaping? i have no clue lol but i read it once and was like OH hell nah 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 17h

I think they are gross and a terrible sensory experience which ik is hypocritical given i smell like cigs but i dont make the decisions here the autism does lmao

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 11h

Wait this is actually genius

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