Autistic girl community on Sidechat | need advice! so my biggest op from hs (made my life and everyone around me hell, not to mention was a pedo, also hella maga) committed a couple days ago. Is it normal to not feel bad or to be confused about how to feel?

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Autistic girl community 1w

need advice! so my biggest op from hs (made my life and everyone around me hell, not to mention was a pedo, also hella maga) committed a couple days ago. Is it normal to not feel bad or to be confused about how to feel?

Anonymous 1w

Don't feel too guilty plus it wasn't ur fault plus you didn't have a good relationship w said person

Anonymous 1w

Yes of course it is

Anonymous 1w

It totally is! The loss of human life is always sad, and that’s just how empathy works. It’s also okay to *not* feel sad: everyone grieves differently, and on top of that everyone has a different relationship to the deceased.

Anonymous

#1 1w

thanks! it’s just been so hard with everyone in my class/area posting all this not knowing he was actually not a nice person unless you were like him :(

Anonymous

OP 1w

I get that unfortunately:( I've been in a similar situation It's hard to navigate but I just kind of kept to myself/talked with my therapist abt it and a few close friends (who weren't from the same area, so they didn't have as much bias) but trust me, your reaction is normal and not one to truly feel too guilty about! Life and death are weird and the feelings of grief and sadness aren't always gonna show up! Especially in a situation like yours

Anonymous

#1 1w

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