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Autistic girl community 17w
Dating feels like, if I try my hardest maybe I will be able to convince one person to actually like me and be nice to me. I feel like I just have to be the perfect person pleasing version of myself to get a relationship, and it’s supposed to be natural
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Anonymous 17w

same, it feels like i have to manage the other persons feelings if i’m in a relationship, and in reality i don’t have to, but i feel like if i don’t then it’s just going to end sooner

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