
Especially when you recall that these are like the same people who are always so adamant that you believe woman about their experiences and how their experiences and perceptions of them are valid and how a man could never possibly know a woman’s experience and shouldn’t even speak on it. I would be interested to see how this stuff develops in a century although I’m sure this will all be forgotten and nobody will remember what the culture was like during this moment in time
My experience is in dating a ton of people who wouldn’t be considered the top anything, but I dated them because they’re good people and reasonably attractive. That’s arguably more experience than men trying to get a date while being a terrible person, then blaming it on not being in the top whatever percent.
This is a woman only space. It’s in the rules you agreed to when you joined the space. And “believe all women” isn’t a substitute for proper investigation and rule of law, it’s just a good rule of thumb, because even now, women still get blamed even when they’re clearly the victim. I recommend watching a video the UK put out, where it shows how victims of rape are treated more like the perpetrator than as a victim.