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I’ve never kissed anyone or been on a date and I’m worried that it’s too late for me (I’m in my last year of college). Do any other autistic girlies feel this way? I don’t know if I’d like kissing with my sensory issues but I’d like to at least try it
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Anonymous 3w

I’ve dated a couple people and I don’t like kissing I hate to say it. I’m good at it but I just kind of dissociate for a bit because I think it’s gross. I like closed mouth kisses as an expression of romantic attraction though!

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Anonymous 2w

i get grossed out by kissing sometimes but once you get used to it it becomes really nice especially if you love the person. i think it’s because like you know how you’re like “i want to be alone right now… except you, you don’t count” about someone? it’s like that like the person you love goes into the “except you” category like “i hate kissing because it’s gross… except you”

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Anonymous 3w

I graduated college without kissing anyone. It is too confusing to figure out how to initiate it and I was too unsure about just trying with random people. I also didn’t want to like try kissing someone and then be grossed out? That feels not fair to them. I wish I had someone who understood who was willing to try, but idk if that is a thing one can seek. I don’t think it’s too late for me though, so I also don’t think it’s too late for you!

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

Never been on a date either. I have, though, accidentally led several people on apparently! So that was at least helpful to me to know that people could like me, I just need to figure out when I like people back

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