Yes took me at least ten times to get comfy. I waited for oral for two years

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YES. I struggle to give head (thankfully my gf doesn’t usually like receiving). Sometimes the feeling of being fingered just icks me out and puts me out of the mood completely. I also feel like I need more mental stimulation to keep my mind on track (although that’s probably ADHD and not autism). If I feel a bad texture I often have to stop for a few minutes.

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Yup!! But there are a lot of ways to accommodate!! For an example, I don’t give head without a condom/barrier. I say that it’s about STDs with people that I’m not comfortable telling about my autism, because you can still get STDs through oral sex. But in reality it’s about how much of a sensory nightmare come is. I also use latex gloves whenever I’m fingering a partner. Not only do they help with sensory and germ stuff, but they make me feel super fashionable and cunty ;)

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Sex can be a little overwhelming for me at times, certain textures at the wrong time can make me uncomfortable but for the most part it’s ok

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I hate the sounds, I hate the bodily fluids, I hate the clean up after, I hate so much…. but I wanna have sex bc I DO enjoy it 😭

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Yeah I can’t have music on during sex or else it’s just too much. I also gag uncontrollably if water based lube touches my hands and also sometimes go nonverbal during/after sex. It’s a very sensitive and intense sensory experience so ofc you’re gonna get a bit overstimulated.

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