Hiiii. I have been in a similar place, adhd diagnosis, bipolar suspected from how I react to certain medications. And honestly I’ve been “peer reviewed” but a lot of other autistics. At the end of the day, all diagnosis are an attempt to see where on the vast spectrum of neurodivergence you are. Professionals can be great but they can interpret things incorrectly especially since people are layered just like an onion (via Shrek) Also I remember hearing that 80% of neurodivergent women over 18..

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