yea i always follow up and if they skirt out of it i assume they didnt, bc like ur not saying “lets hang out sometime” and i tell u im free next week and ur like “🤨”… like dont ask then!
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Anonymous1d
It’s just a polite way of saying im never talking to you again. Most people don’t have the gumption to be rude or upsetting so it’s their fall back.
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Anonymous#11d
deadass 😭 who decided that this was an acceptable social norm
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Anonymouswifelover1d
it’s not v polite to say smth they don’t mean though 😭
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AnonymousOP1d
Yeah but would you rather lie to someone and it’s nice and amicable or would you rather say I have no plans on ever talking to you again not because I don’t like you but because I don’t really feel like it
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Anonymouswifelover23h
a polite way of saying im never talking to you again is suggesting hanging out soon? very counterintuitive
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Anonymous#123h
like you could just say nothing, and end the convo with “have a nice day/evening/night”, no one is forcing you to suggest a hang out
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Anonymous#123h
Yeah man im not suggesting it as a means to end a conversation, but I do think people use it as a way of avoiding the other person from suggesting hanging out and or taking the lead to do so in the future. It just like an exit or something
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Anonymouswifelover14h
im sure people do use it that way, i’m not saying you’re wrong, i’m saying it’s a ridiculous thing to say when it’s the opposite of what you mean