
I get along better with dudes more than girls. Yeah they probably just trying flirt but damn they at least tried to have a conversation with me instead of how every girl I try to text or be friends with all keeps me until I stop giving them the bit of dopamine of oh I’m popular to this person.
As a guy (not trying to intrude, just like hearing the perspectives from this community & don’t rly engage) I try to avoid eye contact and acknowledgment as a way to respect you. It can come across a little cold, which I'm trying to work on, but it's just respect for your boundaries and letting you know I'm not trying to hit on you or anything with some ulterior motive. If I know you well I open up more, but generally I try to be very professional and distant unless I'm invited by you to not be