Autistic girl community on Sidechat | This is kinda unrelated but is anyone else worried they’ll never find anyone who also doesn’t want kids? Being w my niece (huge age gap siblings) made me realize I can not handle the stimuli of children

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This is kinda unrelated but is anyone else worried they’ll never find anyone who also doesn’t want kids? Being w my niece (huge age gap siblings) made me realize I can not handle the stimuli of children

Anonymous 3w

Not to be “these kids these days” but she’ll take your glasses off your face, throw them across the room and laugh or dump any drink you have if it’s unintended on the floor if you’re not holding it. Idk, I know theres “well behaved children” because my cousin has kids that don’t do that but DAYMN I don’t wanna take the gamble

Anonymous 3w

That sounds HORRIBLE. I know my limits, and being around children is an instant trigger, PLUS I just think it’s really unethical to bring another person against their will into this world. I found a partner who feels the same way that I do. In a way, I think it’s easier for us as women (broadly defined) to find partners that don’t want to have kids bc for the most part men (broadly defined) haven’t been conditioned to want children in the same way. You’ll find your person🤗

Anonymous 3w

I feel a similar way. I think there’s a growing community of young people who don’t want children, especially for economic reasons. I’m sure you’ll be able to find someone who agrees :)

Anonymous

OP 3w

Idk my family sees me as a quiet person who doesn’t like confrontation so maybe if I just like…actually tell them how much of a nightmare she is next time she’s does something and I leave from the table or what ever they’ll realize only my dad finds her “cute and funny” because it’s not his kid lol

Anonymous

#1 3w

This pertains to cis relationships in my experience. Idk how it’ll translate to queer relationships, but most people I know regardless of sexual orientation thinks that having kids is a bad idea lol

Anonymous

#1 3w

Surprisingly I’ve had men tell me “there’s no point of dating you if you don’t want kids” when they find out I’m leaning towards no kids. Thankfully I’m bisexual so mayb I’ll find a woman who also doesn’t want kids

Anonymous

OP 3w

Yeah, I’ve had the same thing happen to me as well. Some REALLY want kids, but there are a lot that don’t. I’m bisexual too lol. I’ve only had a couple of queer relationships, but one was like 100% kids or nothing, and the other didn’t want them either lol so I don’t feel like I can make a pattern. I think that a lot of gen z people are realizing that having kids isn’t really feasible, or necessary, so hopefully there will be lots of options for you!