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genuine question to those who are partnered, how have you found someone you can tolerate? ive just now started to date and didnt expect it to be this hard 😔…my biggest struggle is finding someone that doesnt mind me preferring silence at times. should i
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Anonymous 3w

just look for an autistic partner? if so, where do i find them?? 😭😭

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Anonymous 3w

i dont understand what struggles there are tbh can you explain more 🤔 i am just too clingy to mine that i dont care about having silence or time to myself but if you just started dating then dont you already have timeto yourself since youre not moved in together?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

ig im just not the best conversationalist, sit down talking dates are hard for me to feel comfortable and it quickly become awkward bc i dont have much to say

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

i think the reason why i had success in mine was because i talk too much and trying to see how compatible we are in first time talking. it was over a video game (ToS) so maybe doing an activity makes it easier but our first technical date was at th movies seeing fnaf 1 and idk i think that type of stuff makes it easy to be more comfortable. as long as theres mutual attraction then youre good just try to keep talking about the important relationship stuff early so you see if youre good long term.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

yeah definitely realized activity dates are more my speed. but also i feel im not a huge chatterbox with my family/wouldnt prefer to be that way w my partner. im usually really tired from school/work that i like to recuperate at home. ofc if id like someone im comfortable w to where i can talk, but i dont want to be always talking if that makes sense. so idk i feel we dont share the same struggle in that area

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

Library or the gym or (stem/anthro/geology) class

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