Autistic girl community on Sidechat | Why is it literally so hard to just speak up for myself or what’s bothering me. I need to talk to my bf about something but my body freezes and I physically can’t talk. Like I go mute.

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Autistic girl community 29w

Why is it literally so hard to just speak up for myself or what’s bothering me. I need to talk to my bf about something but my body freezes and I physically can’t talk. Like I go mute.

Anonymous 29w

you’re probably scared of being “too much” or being possibly rejected with your intense emotions of care. it’s okay and if he’s a good and caring person then he’ll understand.

Anonymous 29w

Take a few shots

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Anonymous

#1 29w

True, he’s been saying that I have no emotion and that I’m not any fun 😕 I’m afraid that bringing up what’s on my mind will change things but it might be for the best

Anonymous

OP 29w

write it down. tell him in very abstract terms that your body freezes up when you want to talk to him about something potentially uncomfortable. tell him you think it might help if you write it down. give him letter or place it somewhere he will find it

Anonymous

#3 29w

when I’m intoxicated I just shut down more sadly

Anonymous

OP 28w

if he’s not understanding of who you are and is insulting you like that he’s probably not the one