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How do yall deal with the huge change of moving… Im out here crying every night because I miss all the aspects of my home and I miss my parents and my partner and Im so anxious to do anything on my own. I cant deal with ppl treating me diff bc I act weird
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Anonymous 1d

go back home. take control of your life, don’t let anyone tell you you “have” to do anything. No one.

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Anonymous 6h

Try to keep yourself busy! I know it’s tough to live solo or start at a new school but it’s worth it and TO SEE if it’s truly worth it for you, you have to stick it out AT LEAST one semester (2 semesters is ideal so you get a full year). Have your partner or parents send you a small care package right now while everything feels scary and new in your life. I’d say try to bring things from home to decorate your room with, it helps a lot to see your familiar items in your new space and if possible-

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 6h

-incorporating aspects of your home life into your new routine whether it be a part of your night time routine, fav snacks from home, daily phone calls with your family or even starting your own tradition that you can do solo like getting a sweet treat at the end of the week or beginning of the week. Good luck girl I’m rooting for you I know how scary it can be

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 6h

I will say too if you give it some time 1-2 semesters and you’re still unhappy then definitely move home or make the change that will make you feel better!

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