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What do I do if I’ve accidentally led someone on? 😭 I keep “being me” and guys keep getting crushes on me and I don’t know what I do to even attract the attention. It’s never intentional, is it something about the neurodivergence?
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Anonymous 1d

I already have a partner (they are also autistic) and I love them so so much. I just don’t know how these situations keep happening. 😭 I’m not actively trying to attract guys, even when I was single.

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Anonymous 19h

It can happen if you are nice to them but also if you are mean to them, if you look too much at their face or not enough, pretty much anything can convince a guy a girl likes him if he’s looking for it or thinks you’re cool or pretty. I think this happens to neurotypical girls somewhat too but there is some balance some girls know how to strike better. I think the only thing I know how to do is communicate disgust for the idea of dating them but that sometimes also ruins friendships so idk

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