Autistic girl community on Sidechat | Genuinely how do you make friends in college I’m so tired of having no one to talk to. My neurotypical classmates all seem to talk to each other so easily and I feel like every time I try to talk to them they just seem annoyed or do small talk at most.

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Autistic girl community 10w

Genuinely how do you make friends in college I’m so tired of having no one to talk to. My neurotypical classmates all seem to talk to each other so easily and I feel like every time I try to talk to them they just seem annoyed or do small talk at most.

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Anonymous 10w

You’ve prob already heard this but join clubs and student organizations!!

Anonymous 10w

same! I’m trying to put myself out there but it’s like i’m missing something everybody else just gets

Anonymous 10w

If you need sometime to talk to you can alway talk to me. I know what your doing through. Here for you 💙💙💙

Anonymous 10w

same! I’m a senior and I haven’t made any friends. I’ve made acquaintances and people I talk to in class but I cannot get past that stage into actually hanging out and talking outside of class. I joined a club and still no luck :/

Anonymous 10w

babes what year are you, let’s be friends

Anonymous 10w

we’ll never be able to relate to the typicals

Anonymous 10w

I feel the same way. I’m struggling sm cus the only one I ever can talk to is my roommate

Anonymous 10w

Ngl i just use my rayar and telepathically find other autistic people cause its easier

Anonymous

#3 10w

Came here to say this. First semester friends (dorm neighbors, roommates, and classmates) really don’t stick around. My best friends are the ones I found over time via shared interests and clubs are a great way to do that

Anonymous

#4 10w

I have joined a few clubs and that’s helped a little bit because I have people I can socialize with when I’m there but I don’t hangout with them outside of the meetings or anything like that. I don’t really know how to approach people to ask them to hang out. Or how to tell if they would want to

Anonymous

#5 10w

I’m a senior

Anonymous

OP 10w

freshman here, if you would like to we can talk :þ

Anonymous

#5 10w

Heyy im another freshman if you want to be friends!

Anonymous

#6 10w

that’s exactly how it’s been for me

Anonymous

OP 10w

Maybe see if any of the people you see or talk to frequently from meetings would want to grab food or coffee when the meeting lets out? Low commitment activity. No planning needed and it’s like a 50 50 chance they need to eat anyway. Just “hey I was gonna go grab food if you wanna join” and from there conversation usually happens organically