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Anybody else have the struggle where their partner will jokingly say something like “oh so you hate me” and on some level you know they’re joking but your brain just doesn’t believe it?
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Anonymous 9w

yes because one time in high school i had a girlfriend who “seriously”communicated me with “jokes” like that while everyone else i knew was conditioning me to assume things like that are jokes

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Anonymous 8w

I had a friend like that but I unfriended them because that response is toxic and manipulative

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Anonymous 8w

Had a gaslighty abusive mf of an ex that did that. I didn’t realize how abusive he was till I left. 🚩

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