
I understand this struggle a lot! Maybe it would help to phrase it in a very low pressure way like “Hey! I just wanted to let you know I had a great time last night and would love to hang again soon. There’s (insert activity you all could do together) coming up so maybe that could be fun but no pressure. Also, (comment about something like a shared class or interest or whatever. This way, if they aren’t able to do something, they will just talk about the second topic in my experience.”