I’m a woman but I full on dropped my mask. Some love it, some hate it but honestly have more game as a fuckin weirdo.

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It’s not really worth the burnout…I’ve been high masking my whole life. Plus, no matter how much you mask, the wrong girls will still not be your friends. It’s better to unmask and find the right people that’ll accept you and not make you feel like you have to mask. Finding other neurodivergent girls is a good start :)

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Find the wierdos. Neurodiverse and those that appreciate them tend to be heavily into anything counter culture, geeky, or niche nerdy.

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not masking anymore made my life so much easier. it’s also an automatic filter for the people around you, because they’ll show their true colors right off the bat. a lot easier to find cool non judgmental people that way!

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i normally stay medium-high masking when i meet someone, and slowly feel them out to see how safe it is to not mask around them. if you’re living with roommates though, i’d suggest never masking around them so you always have a safe space to drop the mask if you need to

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