Autistic girl community on Sidechat | In all honesty, I feel like most female-female interactions is them just trying to brag or one-up each other with random shit so they can prove that they’re “better” then the other. That’s why it feels hopeless trying to make genuine female friends.

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Autistic girl community 1d

In all honesty, I feel like most female-female interactions is them just trying to brag or one-up each other with random shit so they can prove that they’re “better” then the other. That’s why it feels hopeless trying to make genuine female friends.

Anonymous 1d

This has very little to do with your post, but many women consider it offensive to be referred to simply as “female” since it reduces us down to our sex and women are so much more than that. Its ok if you didnt know, everyone has to learn somehow, but I thought you should know regardless

Anonymous 1d

I’ve only had this happen like once, who tf are you meeting 😭

Anonymous 20h

Have you considered it’s just the women you’re around?

Anonymous 1h

Facts. I feel like I connect with a guy better because he obviously can do things differently than me and I’m not expected to wear my makeup a certain way or have my hair done all the time. Like trying to be friends with the same sex in the female world is just the worse. Can’t make friends because at some point they get annoyed by my preference of how I choose to be and not include all those other silly things like getting nails done or hair styled etc

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Anonymous 1d

I totally get this! I have like two really good girl friends but otherwise I've only ever been friends with guys. I also feel guys are a lot easier to understand in a way. Girls tend to twist what they are saying which I already struggle to get what people mean while guys just say what they mean to say.

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Anonymous

#2 1d

that's exactly what i wa going to say. you'd be friends with more women if you didn't call them females. it makes you sound like an incel. and there's a lit of women supporting women in the world. if you don't see it it's probably because in some way you're tearing them down

Anonymous

#6 20h

I think your experience is valid but in my observation if everyone/everyone from a specific demographic you meet is an asshole it’s usually because of you or your environment. Sometimes it’s both. If you haven’t already, maybe you should explore beyond the familiar (environmental and personal) to find what you’re looking for.

Anonymous

#4 4h

i find that to be categorically false. so many men are shady as fuck and will say crazy inappropriate stuff about people to each other when they think you are around/listening.

Anonymous

#7 4h

aren't around*

Anonymous

#7 4h

she could just mean she connects with guys better & is pinning the reason for that on smth tangible she’s seen, such as other women twisting words. I connect with women better than guys & used to find reasons for why I had that preference as a justification or smth, so I get why #4 said that, even if it’s not right

Anonymous

#8 4h

by “something she’s seen” I mean like smth online or one friend being kind of an ass (or a full-on ass) & then generalizing that. it’s easy to feel defensive about being mostly friends with one gender, & that’s likely what’s happening here

Anonymous

#9 2m

Genuinely in what social strata are you meeting these women 💀 working class adult women are not like this at all