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I thought this guy was sooooo cute for like two months. I just started talking to him and found out he has a girlfriend. I wasn’t intending for a relationship or anything to come of it I just thought he was adorable… but now I feel guilty(I think)
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Anonymous 4w

No need to be; just bc you find someone attractive doesn’t necessarily mean you have to act on it🤷🏽‍♀️ plus there’s no harm that he has a gf since he wasn’t flirting with you, you just thought he was cute lol

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Anonymous 4w

But I do think the guilt might actually be confused for a twinge of sadness bc there might’ve been a chance for it develop into something more; tho that wasn’t the intention. But now there’s no chance since he has a gf and you don’t want your attraction to him to grow anymore

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

Thank you so much love. I spent like 20 mins tryna figure out what I was feeling and that makes sense. I do think there’s guilt in there, partially because I don’t think I explained something properly. Because I got his instagram and then he told me and I said that it was just because I think he’s pretty, but I didn’t explain my definition of the word. Cuz for me pretty is me literally seeing your soul through your face and it being pretty… I’m gonna shut up. Thank you loves❤️

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

Aweee I’m glad my comment could help! But don’t dismiss yourself..I totally get what you mean about recognizing a beautiful soul. I too rank character over appearance❤️ thanks for sharing with us!

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