like i’m glad i learned about how marriage with men effects women statistically before i got married but literally a husband was something i wanted since i was 5. my favorite thing to do at 5 years old was dress up in my little wedding dress and watch cinderella and draw designs for my future wedding dress. and now i’ve heard too many stories from married women to want it anymore but part of me still wants it even though i know it’s not in my best interest.

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how do i stop wanting something i’ve wanted since i started forming thoughts? i wish men could just be better and safer. that’s really what i want but that’s just not reality and i don’t think it’s worth the risk realistically

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Form close community with women

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It genuinely depends on the person you marry. I think marrying my husband actually increased my life expectancy because I now have access to health insurance and emotional support and I like the man I married. Also!! Buy that wedding dress even if you dont plan on marrying. You can enjoy dressing up without tying the knot

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