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i told my rapists new girlfriend what he did today. i’ve thought about it for months. i feel sick in the stomach.
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Anonymous 3w

I can’t imagine the courage it took to do that. You’re amazing

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Anonymous 3w

Healing is possible and you’re valuable

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Anonymous 3w

Did she believe you? How do you feel about it?

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Anonymous 3w

i told his girlfriend and they’re still together 💔

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Anonymous 3w

you’re in the right for telling her.

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Anonymous 3w

I’m struggling with the debate of telling her or if it’s crossing the line :/

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Anonymous 3w

No rapist should be allowed to be in public imo. I’m sorry u still have to deal with him girl

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Anonymous 3w

Did this and she said “idk who to believe” I left it and felt good I’m not that dumb

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Anonymous 3w

The strength this takes, you’re one tough cookie

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Anonymous 3w

And did she continue to date him?

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Anonymous 3w

I accidentally threw a stud finder at my husband after he called me a B*** and put a teeny scratch on his Range Rover no bigger then a penny. How much trouble am I in?

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Anonymous 2w

LoL right?! Luckily this was her older sister but it's still horrible none the less

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 3w

Awwww noooooo

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

🩷🩷🩷

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 3w

thank you 🩷

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3w

i think so? she seemed stressed about what i was telling her but it was over text. she apologized but still has her instagram story collection with him up

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 3w

what the fuck.

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 3w

🩷🩷🩷

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 3w

🩷🩷🩷🩷

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 3w

i was too for month, i feel better now that i said something because i felt like she deserved to know. i just couldn’t help but think how much id hate to be dating someone’s rapist. in my case though i never have to see them, but if yours is different the same action might not be right for you

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 3w

so weird of a response from her. i’d rather break up with my partner than risk dating a rapist anyday. at least you can say u warned her and hopefully it’ll click for her one day

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

That's crazy. This happened in my friend group and the girl didn't believe it until it happened to her sister

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2w

Oh wow. If that’s not motivation to always believe women, I don’t know what is. I have a little sister… if she ever came to me about my dating partner, he would have a sudden and unexpected drug overdose

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