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My boyfriend of 7 years has been cheating on me for 3 months. I am so devastated, angry, confused, scarred, and afraid. I feel like I’ll never find anyone again. I need some girl advice. 💞
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Anonymous 70w

You are one heart break closer to your true love

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Anonymous 70w

It’s better to have loved and get heartbroken than to have never loved. I’m sorry this happened to you. None of it is your fault. You’ll find someone again

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Anonymous 70w

Take some time to focus on yourself, work out, eat right, skin care, go for facials and massages, focus on your career, spend time with friends and family this is what I did and it helped me move on faster

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Anonymous 70w

you that as motivation. show him you’re better. don’t let it drag you down, just another stone to step on he is

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Anonymous 70w

Once a cheater, always a cheater! What a partner does in the relationship will only extend and worsen in a marriage… In my book, cheating is a dealbreaker… I’m sorry OP

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Anonymous 70w

my advice his kill him

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Anonymous 70w

cut of his dick clean, no balls no dick, just flat

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Anonymous 70w

Girl I know you will have the best single season 😌 You will be able to help yourself grow and give the most you can. I am so glad you can do this and I hope you are ready for it

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Anonymous 70w

One day at a time girl. You will cry, you will be angry, every day will be hard in its own way- until it’s not. No matter what, I promise that one day you WILL wake up without the hole in your stomach, and regardless of if you find someone else YOU will be enough for you. Just focus on one day at a time, sending love ❤️❤️

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Anonymous 70w

u got this, love!! here if u need someone to talk to <3

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Anonymous 70w

Well I don’t know if this will even help but trust me girl at least you don’t have to live with regret bc you know you did nothing wrong, I ruined my relationship (didn’t cheat but he thought I did) and I live with the regret everyday

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 70w

Thank you <3 I just can’t picture my life without being a girlfriend.. I was so wrapped up in us and our future. We practically grew up together. I feel like I lost a huge part of my identity

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 70w

You never truly heal but it gets better day by day. Try to take it a day at a time

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 70w

I love this

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 70w

Make a list of people you value and try to always have a meetup of some kind with at least one of them arranged at all times- your friends and family will keep you sane and give you something to look forward to and get a break from your routine with. Doesn’t have to be fancy or cost anything, just seeing people and being outside or going to someone else’s place does wonders

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 70w

Thank you for this<3 I’m excited to move up to UP and start fresh too. Maybe a change of scenery is what I need

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 70w

Journal!!!!!!!!! Every night. Put everything you feel on paper as honestly as you can. Sometimes it feels ugly and gross to put those feelings into words but then they’re out of your body in some form. Doesn’t have to be elaborate- some of my old pages are just scribbles haha. But if you’re like me and not good at talking to people about feelings a journal does wonders

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 70w

This is so cute oh my gosh

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 70w

You’ll find someone. He just wasn’t meant to be. I know it hurts because of how long yall were together but just think this: your true love is out there and waiting

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 70w

lol I moved states and it definitely keeps you busy!! A fresh start is scary but so rewarding when you see it through ❤️❤️

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 70w

I really hope so <3

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 70w

Who knew Yoda was wise in the force and in breakup advice 😌

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 70w

LMAO

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 70w

over 900 i am, lots of experience i have

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Anonymous replying to -> #16 70w

I’m excited but terrified to be single! Just taking this all one step at a time

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 70w

YOU GOT THIS GIRL 🫶

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