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Is it a bad idea, as a guy, to include on a dating profile that I'm empathetic, good at conflict resolution, and will prioritize her happiness and comfortability?
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Anonymous 8w

don't get me wrong, those are very good things to be, but I wouldn't believe them just because someone put it on their profile. definitely something that needs to be demonstrated/proven

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Anonymous 8w

many guys will try to say these kinds of things on a profile. most of them are not great people so it’s more likely that person is being performative to get pussy. they will learn that about when you start going on dates.

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Anonymous 8w

Green flag

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Anonymous 8w

Performative

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Anonymous 7w

I’d automatically distrust you because of it. Also prioritizing the happiness of someone you don’t even know put me off Don’t misunderstand, I’m sure you’re a good dude, I just personally would get the opposite vibes of what you intend

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 7w

I have never seen anyone say such things on their profile. That being said prompts don’t hold much weight

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