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In a an interaction, what sets apart an avg attractiveness guy from other avg attractiveness guys?
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Anonymous 18w

Not just commenting on their attractiveness, noticing small things about them that other people may not notice, comment about their personality something you find positive/intriguing about them. And just be confident in yourself. Also be inquisitive. If she don’t want that she ain’t it

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Anonymous 18w

a good sense of humor tbh

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Anonymous 18w

Kindness

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Anonymous 18w

Anything interesting, compassion, intelligence, curiosity. But that’s my personal preference. Everyone’s different, and you’re also trying to attract the right person for you. I might not be the kind of person you’d like. If you put your authentic self on display, you’ll attract people who like your authentic self. It will save you time later.

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Anonymous 18w

Being different id say

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Anonymous 18w

Is kindness rlly that attractive?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 18w

How?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 18w

I like that

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 18w

Thank you🙂‍↕️

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 18w

Humor rlly is huge, isn‘t it

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 18w

yessssss!

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 18w

I’d say most women out there ( not a women so correct me) aren’t just looking for an (attractive man) or someone’s who’s (hot) their looking for someone who they can picture themselves with in the long run.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 18w

Just because you’re attractive doesn’t mean you have the attributes to be a long time partner. But that’s just my opinion as a man

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 18w

What separates a kind friend from a kind guy who‘s more than a friend?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 18w

chemistry

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 18w

What is chemistry?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 18w

Like I get the idea, but how do u know there is or isn‘t chemistry?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 18w

like a tingly type of chemistry where you get butterflies when you lock eyes and touching them feels kind of electric

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Anonymous 18w

At least 1% of people are narcissists, so yeah, there’s people like that for everyone to run into. That will happen. Most people have empathy and want someone else who does too

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 18w

I find it SUPER attractive. That and intelligence. Every time my bf is nice to a beetle or comes up with an idea I didn’t think of, he gets more attractive.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 18w

This is very important in my opinion. appealing to potential dates could be a decent motivation to work on things you already value or like, but it’s counterproductive to curate yourself into a dating persona that isn’t true to you.

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