Anonymous OP 1d

You literally jumped at people and called them qoute you sluts for asking for clarification on why it matters that’s why you were getting downvoted

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Anonymous #3 17h

I’m referencing the specific people trying to defend something I never cared to have a conversation about. I don’t know why you guys keep thinking im referring to all women… are you self reporting?

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Anonymous #3 17h

And if you read the thread you’d see they were never interested in answering that question. Just about why I had that preference. This isn’t an ama is it?

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Anonymous OP 17h

Dude you called everyone sluts you said that in the page you addressed everyone that’s again what were upset about you said that word for no reason and it’s wrong to do so

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Anonymous OP 17h

But also several people did answer the thread but we don’t take kindly to you using insults for who disagrees with you

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Anonymous #4 17h

And we’ve been saying this for the past hour

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Anonymous #4 17h

“No reason” wdym no reason? I didn’t say slut for no reason. And I didn’t say “everyone” or “your all”. I called everyone defending slut behavior a slut because that’s probably exactly what they’re getting defensive about no?

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Anonymous #3 17h

No one on this specific thread had ANY interest in taking my question seriously and you know that lol. I don’t gaf about politeness, why do they think I care to have that conversation? Why are they unable to either answer the question or scroll?

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Anonymous #2 17h

What did I bail on exactly?

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Anonymous OP 17h

I get defensive about you using that word when there’s a reason it’s insulting and you know the reason you yourself said you know it’s deragatory, and you used it anyway, slut behavior isn’t a thing but your I assume the type of person to just throw it out if you know someone’s body count is more then one, that’s a what I have an issue with is your logic of if I disagree I can insult women, who are you to say what people can do with their bodies? Who are you to criticize people for simply sex

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Anonymous #4 17h

Yes, if you’re confused as to why someone would think it matters how many different people someone has had sex with, you are very likely a slut. What are you confused about?

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Anonymous OP 17h

I’m saying again don’t fucking use that word! It’s like calling someone a bitch it’s wrong so don’t do it

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Anonymous #4 17h

There’s so many reasons to not be sexually promiscuous, would you like me to go through them for you?

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Anonymous OP 17h

No I’m saying it’s not your place to judge or insult people

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Anonymous #4 17h

Or just be rude because you feel like it

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Anonymous #4 17h

If you disagree and you have a preference that’s okay but don’t go out and call women sluts because you disagree

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Anonymous #4 17h

Why would I respect someone’s opinion who purposely is hateful and mean I don’t, idc if you agree or disagree insulting is never the answer

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Anonymous #4 17h

A bitch is arguably a worse word to use because it means you probably have nothing of real substance to judge them on so you just throw out blind insults. Slut, and the way I used it… isnt a blind insult. I can use whatever fucking word id like😂. The only thing wrong here is being a slut, and if you get this defensive by it from an internet post, then you’re probably self reporting

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Anonymous #4 17h

“dOnT uSE fUcKiNG tHaTs nOt A niCe wOrD”

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Anonymous OP 17h

Yes I have sex but why do you fucking care? I don’t get it why are you being so unwilling to admit it’s wrong to use certain words? You aren’t a woman so when a woman says hey this word is offensive to women who are you to say no it’s not it shouldn’t offend you that much

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Anonymous #4 17h

I get defensive because men use words like that to degrade and shame people for their bodies and I think it’s disgusting for you to do the same

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Anonymous OP 17h

Real mature

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Anonymous #4 17h

Can you explain how I’m hateful? I feel I’m pretty justified in my feelings. It’s not just an opinion, there’s a lot of specific realities that follow promiscuity around. Hate is when you discriminate on something for no good reason, I have a pretty decent reason

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Anonymous #4 17h

PLENTY of men are sluts too if that makes you feel any better

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Anonymous OP 17h

I’m trying to explain to you, when you use words like that, words that are historically used to degrade women for their sexuality, it’s the same as doing it for that reason, it’s an offensive phrase and your mocking people for just asking for clarification or asking why it matters, do you understand that now? It’s an offensive phrase because it’s used to degrade people make them feel hurt it’s hateful because it’s primarily used by mysogonists there’s a very very good reason most people don’t

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Anonymous #4 17h

Exactly, I’m mocking you. Being sensitive to a word for no good reason; Thats immaturity. I have a reason I’m using that word. Words don’t exist for zero reason ya know

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Anonymous #4 17h

Especially since most of us were trying to help you, then you said that and immediately no one was, do you see that?

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Anonymous #4 17h

That’s why I’m saying your being hateful your mocking me for even trying to explain it to you,

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Anonymous #4 17h

We were trying to help but you became disrespectful

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Anonymous OP 17h

I do know but also that’s a word that is commonly used to control and harm people can you not see that? It’s the same as if someone called a woman a breeder or a cow, it’s just simply not something people say because your insulting people for disagreeing

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Anonymous OP 17h

Your a man so I doubt you’ve ever been called that, I’ve been called that by my parents by my ex church, you don’t get to mock me for being sensitive to a world that screams it at me for existing, women are called that for how they dress, how they act, who they love

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Anonymous #4 17h

Anyone offended by that word probably is one themselves, and I probably wouldn’t want their opinion anyway so it kinda just helps me filter things. “Immediately no one” was what? No one in that thread was helpful at any point. I don’t know how my explanation for the preference helps you answer my question. There’s very straightforward reasons as to why someone would be against promiscuity

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Anonymous OP 17h

So what? Does that give you the right to insult people

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Anonymous #4 17h

Does it?

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Anonymous OP 17h

Strawberry tried to help you, she told you just don’t go to parties or frats but then you used that word and she got upset do you seriously not realize why

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Anonymous #4 17h

Yes. You’re wasting my time and questioning my preference to stay away from promiscuity……. Yeah you might get called a slut. You really gotta take a step back on what’s being said and the way that they’re defending their line of thinking. How are you gonna question someone who wants to avoid promiscuity and then get surprised when you get called a slut? If you take insult then it means you yourself knows there is something wrong with it. If you actually thought there wasn’t anything wrong with

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Anonymous #4 17h

It, then why would you be offended by that word? If you don’t judge on how much someone sleeps around then literally how do you get offended by that word? What’s happening here is a lot of cognitive dissonance

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Anonymous OP 17h

I wasn’t one of the ones saying your preference was wrong? I was the first person who responded to you, I was the person who asked about if you meant sexual orientation or not,I was the first to try to help you, I didn’t waste anyone’s time I’m not questioning your logic I’m questioning the fact that you jumped to calling people sluts the moment they disagree

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Anonymous OP 17h

There isn’t something wrong with large body counts but slut shaming is wrong your allowed to have a preference that’s fine idc about that but you deliberately slut shaming is wrong

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Anonymous OP 17h

Why am I offended by slurs? Why am I offended by a word that people use against me because of how short my clothing is, for who I talk too for who I love? Do you not realize there’s a reason that word is taken so negatively it’s a fucking insult and it’s based around purity culture which you say your not religious but religious people use it to degrade and harm women ask any woman in your life if it’s okay to call someone a slut

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Anonymous #4 17h

You will find most people find it extremly offensive because it’s used to shame people and cause harm

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Anonymous OP 17h

Would you be offended if someone called you a dick? Or if someone called you a slut? I assume the answer is yes, you said in a degrading awful way that’s why we’re all upset

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Anonymous #4 17h

I forget which one you were. You’re gonna have to be really specific if we’re getting into individual detail. I upvoted all the answers that actually got to the point. And I agree there’s nothing necessarily wrong with the first reply of that thread. It’s just when the questions kept coming, that’s when I rightfully become defensive

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Anonymous OP 17h

But do you realize you jsut spent the last hour insulting and mocking the person who posted that first thread?

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Anonymous #4 17h

Does it make you better to insult people, no one was insulting or trying to mock you but you went there, making me believe you think it’s okay to mock women and that is wrong

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