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Is there anything wrong with me for not wanting casual sex??? I’m 21 and I’m still a virgin and I feel kind a loser for that… I’m a girl and I feel like I’m invisible to guys even though a bunch of dudes swipe me on hinge because I hate dating apps…
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Anonymous 3d

I’m not either. And the good part about it is you don’t have to entertain the men that don’t respect that. If a man doesn’t respect that you aren’t into hookups then he’s not for you, and likely will not respect you later on down the line if he couldn’t respect keeping his dick in his own pants. So we’re dodging billets!

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Anonymous 3d

Nothing wrong with that babe. I have suitors out the door but I don’t partake in hookup culture because it doesn’t feel likes own thing that would fulfill anything for me. Do what makes you happy

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Anonymous 3d

nothing wrong at all, i’m also 21 and doing the same! i’ve only dated men who respected that

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Anonymous 3d

there is absolutely nothing wrong with that. i admire it. i think more women need to withhold sex and not partake in casual sex.

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Anonymous 3d

society pushes a narrative that casual sex for women is empowering. it's not.

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Anonymous 3d

Women can’t be sexually deprived.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3d

It’s just hard nowadays because hook up culture is so prevalent but the guys who want to date exist (I hope!) we just have to find them

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3d

Thank you!!! I feel like I’m “losing the fun” for not participating in this, and my coworkers kinda make fun of me because I’m still a virgin so that hurts as well

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3d

Noo you’re not missing out and you’re just as desirable regardless of your experience. Be true to how you feel! You just need to find like minded people who won’t make you question that

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Anonymous replying to -> basedgigatruecel 3d

And you wonder why no one wants to date you guys

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 3d

Actually no you don’t wonder, you chalk it up to not being 6ft or something even tho I’ve seen plenty of decent to good looking incel men who are just clear losers and don’t respect women so why would I date them

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Anonymous replying to -> twirling_tornado 3d

waiting till marriage ^

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