Ask Women on Sidechat | I’m a 25 yo grad student living in a college town. Do I shoot my shot with girls at coffee shops and whatnot even though they might be much younger or should I lean into apps instead? Ideally wanna date someone 23+. Thanks!

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Ask Women 1w

I’m a 25 yo grad student living in a college town. Do I shoot my shot with girls at coffee shops and whatnot even though they might be much younger or should I lean into apps instead? Ideally wanna date someone 23+. Thanks!

Anonymous 1w

Both but look for women who look more mature when you go in person

Anonymous 1w

Both

Anonymous

#2 1w

Yeah it’s just tough cause it’s hard to tell sometimes yk? Fashion is pretty similar and whatnot. Besides avoiding people who are obviously in Greek life idrk what to avoid. Got any tips on that front?

Anonymous

OP 1w

Don’t go after people who look like teenagers? Like face wise

Anonymous

#3 1w

Well yeah obviously not. I’m saying 21 year olds often look pretty similar to 23/25 year olds and it’s hard to tell the difference sometimes

Anonymous

OP 1w

And I just don’t wanna date someone much more than a year or two younger than me, ideally I’d like to date someone my own age

Anonymous

OP 1w

Then you should probably try online dating or find a spot with an older age demographic

Anonymous

#3 1w

Any tips on what those spots might be?

Anonymous

OP 1w

College bars on the weekdays might have more people your age, honestly I’m not really sure bc I’m undergrad so idk where the grad students congregate