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Is it disrespectful of me to get mad at my bf bc he says I can’t wear flared leggings
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Anonymous 7w

No. Why is he saying you can’t wear anything? It’s your body. Flared leggings seems like a strange hill to die on

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Anonymous 7w

Flared leggings are like the least problematic outfit I could think of 😭 but that doesn’t even matter tbh he shouldn’t be dictating what you can and can’t wear

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Anonymous 7w

He is disrespecting you not the other way around

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Anonymous 7w

If my bf tried to order me around like that I think I’d put him in a barrel and fill it with cement tbh

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Anonymous 7w

Leave himmmmmmm

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Anonymous 7w

no that’s weird of him to try to dictate what u can and can’t wear, imo he’s disrespecting ur autonomy by doing that

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Anonymous 7w

Idk if I’m just weird but I like it when my girlfriend wears clothes that make her ass and other parts look good?

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Anonymous 7w

wear what you want but i’m ngl he’s implying that if he sees another girl wearing it he will subconsciously sexualize them too. but i suggest having a talk about it bc that’s actually ridiculous

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Anonymous 7w

that’s like saying he isn’t allowed to wear shorts or sweatpants… i’m sure he wouldn’t like that

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Anonymous 7w

Why is he telling you that

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Anonymous 7w
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Anonymous replying to -> #1 7w

no literally!! Flared leggings out of EVERY THING I just don’t get it

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 7w

Did he give a reason? That just makes no sense to me

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 7w

Bc apparently it makes all girls ass look good 😣

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 7w

“Oh no! Girlfriend hot! Ass too fat!” Like bro. That’s weird. Congrats on your good looking ass tho lol

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 7w

why is he looking at other girl’s asses then… and doing it enough to assume that all men would automatically look at yours … projecting much

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 7w

explain this please im dense

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 7w

basically using candy wrappers as a metaphor for modesty/being pursued by men as if it isn’t the most objectifying false analogy 💀

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 7w

“Look closely at this picture 👀 One candy is wrapped and untouched. The other is exposed and swarmed by ants. Sometimes the attention you’re getting isnt because you’re ’too fine,’ ‘too hot’ or ‘too sexy.’ It’s because you’ve left yourself uncovered ✨” 💀

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 7w

ive been catcalled in a damn 3XL sweater and jeans 😭😭 as if that’s gonna stop em

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 7w

yeah it’s literally just policing how women dress under the pretense of “keeping them safe”

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 7w

no deadass 😭 i’ve been catcalled in basically every kind of outfit and i swear they literally do NOT care what you’re wearing bc regardless they equate women to sex

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 7w

i’m sorry to be this person but if he is thinking of and talking about other girls bodies (specifically their ass) then he should not be able to have a say in what you wear… if he can look at girls in flared leggings you can wear them 🤷‍♀️

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