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Girl I started dating wants to call herself my girlfriend but is wanting on my to declare it, is this normal?
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Anonymous 1w

Both needs to be on the same page so it’s both of you that needs to declare it

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Anonymous 1w

Wdym declare it? I feel like that’s weird

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Anonymous 1w

I told her I was taken and this is what she said

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Anonymous 1w

You should ask her for clarification.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

Do I just ask her ?

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1w

Should I ask her

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

Just be honest with her

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

Yes ask her to be your girlfriend, labels are different than just going out so it’s a move

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

Like, get her flowers and ask. Or ask her when you see her. Mostly, she wants the title to be your girlfriend, not just treated as one.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1w

Should I wait until Valentine’s Day?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

No, that day is so overrated people should show love any day of the year not a specific day and there shouldn’t be a specific day. You should surprise him/her throughout the day

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

No, then she is most likely going to think it's just because it's Valentine's Day. To a girl, being asked to be your gf and your Valentine are different things.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1w

Plus it’s overrated anyway

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

Agreed

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

Yes you should

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 5d

I ended up asking her and she was like “yes, did you think I was going to say no?”

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5d

Congratulations dude.

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