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how do yall handle being w a man who like. wants to know what you find physically attractive ab him but you either a) are attracted to his personality or b) fucking shit at compliments??? i'm a girl and i CANT PRETEND!!!!!
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Anonymous 5w

there's not one thing you can complaint about his appearance?? even the ugliest guys have something attractive about them, why would you date someone you can't compliment one thing about them

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Anonymous 5w

or like obviously if the guy is cute then like. okay. but i don't know what feature makes him cute so it's not like i can tell him

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Anonymous 5w

you’re afraid of describing something that isn’t him and then you think he’ll lose interest huh

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Anonymous 5w

Really? When I’m in love with someone even if it’s the ugliest guy I’ll think they’re the most attractive bc I’m IN LOVE

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

no like duh i'm not gonna date someone im not attracted to but there's never one thing that stands out to me 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

can you think about what specifically makes him attractive to you? does he have nice eyes or a good smile? he’s funny or easy to be around? maybe he reminds u of someone or something else you like? u just gotta express it with words gurl

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

Come on, some uggos have nothing you can compliment. Let’s be real here 😒

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

just get them on the height, guys love being told that you like the height for some strange reason

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 5w

I’m super ugly but my ex found things about me to compliment that i never would’ve realized were attractive features of me

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

Maybe compliments on how he makes YOU feel, like “i always feel safe around you” or “you always find a way to make me smile”

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