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Would you be upset if your close friends didn’t wish you happy birthday?
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Anonymous 4w

I get disappointed but not upset

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Anonymous 4w

Kind of? I make a pointed effort to wish everyone happy birthday and I’ve had “friends” who just ignored my birthday and ended up talking shit behind my back and being bad people. So

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Anonymous 4w

i used to when i was younger/ in high school, now i don't really care as its about me but that doesn't mean i need the validation to feel like its special

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Anonymous 4w

No not really

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4w

That’s a good word for it

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

Yeah I get that! For me, it’s not necessarily that I need validation nor that I need it to feel special nor that I even need to feel special, it’s just I always remember everyone’s birthday and make it a big deal. So it hurts a little when I don’t get the same in return

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