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what do you guys think of the 4B movement?
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Anonymous 1w

I respect it for the women who decide it’s best for them. I understand and appreciate the statement it’s trying to make. I don’t necessarily agree with all the perspectives I’ve seen expressed by women in it, and I don’t personally wish to be a part of it

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Anonymous 1w

I respect it. I like how they refuse emotional labor as well as physical. I’ve never wanted children or marriage, am iffy about a boyfriend (very picky), but I don’t want to give up sex. The few fwb’s I’ve had were friends first and partners second. It would take a lot for me to decide to be in a relationship.

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Anonymous 1w

i am not super educated on it at all. quick google search tells me it started in south korea and focuses on 4 no’s: no marriage, no getting pregnant, no sex w men, and no dating men. but i’m not sure what the actual movement is about or what the specific reasoning for people doing that is besides personal lifestyle preference

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Anonymous 1w

Tbh not much. I forgot it existed.

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Anonymous 1w

I mean the people that are participating in 4B would be miserable to date anyway so they’re not making much of an impact

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1w

they’re doing it to protest against abuse towards women and anti abortions

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 1w

yeah. i guess i get it. like if u cant distinguish who’s bad just cut everyone off. but it seems kind of unhealthy. i mean i personally have no wish to date or have children or have sex ever, but thats just bc its my personal preference of what i am and am not interested in. but i feel like for people who value those kinds of relationships, its probably just doing more harm than good.

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 1w

(Would never sleep with a man who didn’t actively and publicly support my right to get an abortion)

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