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dear diary... when can i have a kid without people thinking im crazy?? sincerely, baby fever victim
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Anonymous 1w

Me and my bf have had massive baby fever recently it’s insane. We’re waiting til I’m out of college and we’re both independent from our parents to do anything though

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Anonymous 1w

I too want a kid but I’m waiting until I am financially stable to have one

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Anonymous 1w

ik im too young and not in a place mentally, financially, or romantically to have a kid so i want someone really close to me to have a kid so i can obsess and play with them but like not bare the responsibility of actual motherhood

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Anonymous 1w

when you’re ready mentally and financially to support a human being into adulthood and beyond, no sooner so that you can give them the best life possible

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Anonymous 1w

Honestly thinking about wanting a kid is not being crazy

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Anonymous 1w

I would say, whenever you get married or mid twenties

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Anonymous 1w

people will think you're crazy even for other things never pay attention to what they think and focus what's best for you

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Anonymous 1w

ur never crazy for wanting a kid it’s the child haters who push their ideals on others that are the problem i posted about my pregnancy and the only comment i got was “my condolences”… some ppl are just weird do why you think is best for your life

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Anonymous 1w

23?

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 1w

Smart move in my opinion

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1w

Spoken like a true prophet

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 1w

No fr bc I get not wanting a child urself but y r u hating on everyone else who is having one or wants one

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 1w

literally like i would never judge someone for not wanting kids so the fact that so many ppl find it appropriate to judge those who do is baffling

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1w

i understand where you’re coming from, but with having a kid you also need to consider that fact that you’re creating life and that the person you make is an individual too

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 1w

yes that's why it was said to do what's best and doing what's best obviously you're gonna think about the questions that you mentioned

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 1w

unfortunately people who don’t want kids also get judged harshly too… like why can’t people just live their lives how they want to, whether they’ll have kids or not

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 1w

exactly my point. it’s sad others will judge people for not living their ideal life. just because you want it a certain way doesn’t require everyone else to have to live it the same way too. some people are just too self centered tbh

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 1w

I feel like the older generation judges people for not wanting kids and our generation judges people for wanting to have kids more. At least that’s what I’ve seen but I agree like y can’t we just all mind our own businesses and respect peoples decisions

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 1w

“The fun aunt”

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