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Ask Women 4w
What is the most unattractive quality in a guy- pick the one you want to remove from your next date!
#poll
Short (5ā€™8ā€ or below)
Non White / No European Features
In debt/ low salary
Virgin
Says he doesnā€™t care for politics
351 votes
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Anonymous 4w

Crazy that non white is an option like sorry huh šŸ˜­šŸ˜­šŸ˜­ ??

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Anonymous 4w

Itā€™s college weā€™re all poor but if you ā€œdonā€™t care about politicsā€ thatā€™s a serious red flag

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Anonymous 4w

The only one that matters is politics. In this day and age if he isnā€™t political he just doesnā€™t have morals

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Anonymous 4w

None of these are an issue to me (money will be more important after college though) except for the politics. If Iā€™m gonna date a man my bare minimum requirement is for him to be aware of the current political climate and openly advocating for progress

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Anonymous 4w

ā€œNo European featuresā€

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Anonymous 4w

i grew up poor and with my parents in crippling debt, i will never date a man who canā€™t manage his finances properly. low salary is less of a concern but being in major debt is an automatic no for me

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Anonymous 4w

5ā€™8 is average height smh

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Anonymous 3w

in debt and low income are veeerry different things

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Anonymous 3w

Literally none of these are dealbreakers or that bad, except saying he doesnā€™t care about politics. I just want him to at least, be empathetic and socially aware of the state of thingsšŸ˜­

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Anonymous 4w

Cheap and only interested in himself.

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Anonymous 4w

Weā€™re all broke in college and a low salary doesnā€™t mean much to me no political views is the biggest but also fear the 5ā€™8 one is a little for me just because Iā€™m taller than that but itā€™s not the end of the world

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Anonymous 4w

i guess "doesn't care for politics" can mean lib or left-wing beliefs w/o caring for the political spectacle which for me, is not a deal breaker

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Anonymous 4w

You want the real answer or the fake answer. Because only two of these can be seen before talking.

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Anonymous 4w

I gotta go with Hellraiser here, virgin men just give me the ick!

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4w

I donā€™t like virgins, ick. Youā€™d be surprised how weird they are when they have no idea what theyā€™re doing!

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

If anyoneā€™s weird itā€™s you for making this reply šŸ˜­ when you grow up youā€™ll realize that everyoneā€™s into different things

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 4w

I think all of these describe himself and heā€™s wondering which is the biggest problemā€¦

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Anonymous 4w

You sure about that?

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 4w

Being white is one of the biggest advantages in dating as a man. Next on this list is height

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Anonymous replying to -> #14 4w

also lol at the non-white option. "waah waah why won't white women fuck me" guy i know it's you

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 4w

literally

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Anonymous replying to -> strawberry_hair 3w

Before I got into philosophy and law it was hard for me to take a stance because Iā€™m a perfectionist and I hate when things donā€™t make sense together. Downside is Iā€™m now against state vaccine mandates in order to be pro-abortion.

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Anonymous replying to -> #14 3w

Not an issue, you can have the white girls, Iā€™m fine with the preference that wasian girls have for me.

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Anonymous replying to -> #16 3w

The problem is in reality nothing is clear cut, as nice as it would be for that to be the case.

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Anonymous replying to -> #14 3w

typically when ppl say doesnt care for politics they say theyre moderates who sit in the middle and dont try to pick a side which can be just as harmful as they think it is ā€œholding the peaceā€ by staying neutral

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Anonymous replying to -> #17 3w

You donā€™t hold the peace by being neutral you do it by flipping harmful perspectives into a light that can be perceived by those with them.

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Anonymous replying to -> strawberry_hair 3w

For that specific example Iā€™d be willing to give my explanation. It took me hours to reconcile with myself.

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Anonymous replying to -> #17 3w

i know that's probably what the poll meant lol but it's only one of multiple interpretations

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 3w

No, not really

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Anonymous 3w

Same diff

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3w

Im 23 already an adult LoL

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

Embarrassing

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

So your brain is still developing, got it.

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