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Ask Women 17h
I met a girl and took her on a date, we held hands, cuddled, andkissed once before she went back to her place, I’ve been spoiling her… she’s also diagnosed bipolar and borderline, hasn’t responded all day, and left a message I sent on opened Am I cooked?
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Anonymous 17h

Give her some time to think if u actually think it went well reach out again! Just don’t do it a million times and be creepy.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 17h

Yeah I texted her when I woke up just asking how she is, sent another recently making a joke that she’s prob still asleep… gonna chill till she responds now

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 17h

I have very anxious attachment tho so this is killing me

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 16h

if you self-describe as having anxious attachment, a relationship with someone who has BPD is going to completely ruin your life.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 16h

It’s hard being in a relationship with somebody that has something like that BUT you can always try your best to navigate the situation and make both parties feel comfortable if he didn’t think he could help he would be putting effort into her

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 16h

I’ve had this thought but I think she’s worth it

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 13h

I'm sure you do, but you also exist

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