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Why is my partner allowed to express their anger and act out but I can’t? If I do they start freaking out
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Anonymous 6d

Feelings are always valid but how someone expresses them still needs to be respectful.

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Anonymous 6d

well i’m in the same boat, it’s a deflection of their character. they KNOW the way they handle emotion is flawed, and because they don’t want to admit that, when you display the same thing they explode. it’s like suppressed hypocrisy blowing up in UR face. they need to work on themselves and make an effort to change how they express themself when angry

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Anonymous 6d

Are they a man? Makes me think of this lyric

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 6d

I express mine the same way they do now cause I figure it’s only fair and they don’t seem to like it

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6d

I understand that it’s easier to mirror someone when they are being disrespectful to you. It’s a drag to always be the bigger person. If someone doesn’t respect you when they are angry, they don’t deserve you.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 6d

It’s too late to exit the relationship

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6d

Took me 4 years of abuse to leave, I get it. Godspeed.

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Anonymous 6d

I also don’t really wanna leave cause we’ve been together for awhile, we’re also married

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6d

Couples therapy and some deep talks should happen. It can only change if both people work at it.

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